I know right? Apple juice, everyone LOVES apple juice. Not me, I hated it until it was my salvation for four days. These four days would change the trajectory of my life as I knew it. I can’t explain why I did it, or what thoughts even made me come to the decision to walk into the ER that day. I didn’t have a choice, my mind was winning and it was the type of winning that would ultimately make me lose everything.
Walking into the ER I could already feel the effects of the medicine rushing through my blood and finding its way to my brain. It was a high that I had never felt before, it was a rush that I never want to feel again; but I was desperate. The registar asked me “what are you here for”…my answer “I overdosed on over the counter medicine.” Later after the charcoal had taken effect and my body had neutralized itself I found myself in scrubs and was staring at a “babysittler”; I had been put under involuntary baker act. But you see, that was my goal all along. My intention wasn’t to kill myself, it was to stop the dreams, the night sweats and the uncontrollable thoughts that I didn’t matter and I wasn’t good enough for myself and for this life.
Many people have asked me in my journey with mental health why I did what I did, I was given a second, third, fourth chance at life when the odds were against me at such a young age. That’s the problem, that terror of something being wrong, never quite being whole, always having to look before you leap has somehow told my brain “what’s the point?” I can never thank the doctors that have cared for me since I was a baby for standing up and always cheering me on; but what was the point at the age of 30? That’s how I felt, useless and a burden.
All of this lead me where I am today; staring at five packed boxes and a room full of memories that still need to be packed. I’m moving back home; for now. I can never thank my friends for what they have done for me here and I have no harsh words in the worry they have for me. My friends don’t deserve to who I am right now, my godson doesn’t need to worry about where ‘cole is, and my family shouldn’t have to know I disappeared from a toll-free number after i have found my way to a phone in scrubs that have no strings. My friends and family deserve the me that loves pizza and anime, the me that is always willing to try something once, the me that loves traveling more than anything else and the me that enjoys this life I have.
I hope that I can someday be that person again, the one who can manage this life without being a burden, the one who can help others who are in this position. No one should have to choose between their physical health and their mental health like I’ve had to. Here’s to learning to love myself with a big glass of apple juice.